Dreams are not realities

Dreams are not realities but if you work hard you'll get there...
This is a blog with pictures I like. They reflect what appeals to me, like fitness, thinspo, fashion and photography.

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
Bob Marley

The “thin equals happy” illusion

I can’t believe that so many girls think that they will be happy once they will reach their goal to be thin.

First of all, you don’t ever attain “thin”. There are always thinner girls. All you’ll get is maybe: “I can live with my body now.”

Then, why would you suddenly be happy? There are still problems around, hard times ahead. And a size 0 won’t be your shield against daily problems.

What do you think?

Paradox

So, here it is: The less I weigh, the more problem zones I discover. How come? Why? I fear that my thighs will become larger when I train as much as I have planned… I am unhappy with my belly, though you can clearly feel and sometimes see abs. luxury problems, I know.

Today, I saw two girls with extreme body shapes in town: One of them was clearly anorexic, and I hurt me to see her and to know that she must be lying to everyone around her and be suffering inside. Cause the problem is not the food thing. It’s more and deeper. And then I saw a huge girl. She was so big that she couldn’t sit on the normal chairs on the bus, so she was leaning against them. I couldn’t help staring at her, wondering HOW on earth one can become so large. But I guess there were reasons.

Isn’t this absurd? We’re never content. Yet staring at others, making them distressed…crazy.

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perfect

perfect

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How do you know when your body is finally right?

First you are the curvy or slightly overweight girl who just wants to loose a bit of weight. You start looking at fitspo pictures, get inspired, hit the gym, get yourself running stuff and all those pretty gym clothes. But then, as you loose the weight, you realise that there are lots of girls who are thinner than you. Then you start counting calories, you know your BMI, your BMR, you set a GW and an UGW. Suddenly you start skipping one meal, and you discover all those pretty thinspo blogs. You fancy collar bones, thigh gaps and a fat stomach. You keep working on your body, it’s your project now. Thoughts about calories take up your mind. And before you realise, you visit pro-ana blogs, just like that, to get inspired…

skinny girl’s problem

I am scared of buying pants. I finally have a nice thigh gap as I have lost 20lbs, but who knows? Will I remain at this weight? Or will I put on weight? Or loose some? Anyone knows what to do?

willpower and exercises showing results :-)

willpower and exercises showing results :-)

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